ATL Summer, 2011

ATL Summer, 2011
One of them is always crying....

Thursday, August 11, 2011

All the things I judged parents for, BEFORE I had Kids.......

I was delusional before I had kids, about having kids. I just thought it was all about being in control and having good boundaries. I thought my kids would listen to me. Well I was wrong. I think it is because I am their mom that makes it so they  listen to me.
 In fact, when Emma was a 2 year old, I used to tell her NOT to do things I wanted her to do and TO do things I didn't want her to do. That was literally the only way I could  get through some days.
Today I wanted a kiss from my 2  year old son so I told him, "NO KISSES." what do you think he did?

Before I got pregnant, I would watch parents I knew, interact with their kids and Think: I would never do that.

This is just a small list of all the "I would never's" that I have done  :

1.) I haven given my kids many many lollipops and cookies , and candy of all kinds to bribe them.
2.) I have told Emma Shrek is coming if she doesn't listen.
3.) My husband and I  have discussed sticking them in the shed  for a few hours, just for a break.(discussed doesn't really count.)
4.) Emma hit Jaxson so many times before he turned two. So, when Jaxson hit her for the first time, I had to run into the laundry closet and close the door, I was laughing so hard.
5.) I left both kids crying in the front room once, and drove around the block calling my husband crying        because I was going insane.
6.)  I Yelled like a nut case in the grocery store with people staring at me, and said "KNOCK IT OFF!"
7.) I had a huge temper tantrum once in the bathroom by myself and threw the bath toy container at the wall and it shattered into a million little bits.
8.) I let Jaxson play in the dog water at the park and I don't put hand sanitizer on him.
9.) I have thrown away TONS of  pooped in pants and underwear. Who really wants to soak shit?
10.) Allowed Emma to wear the same shirt and tutu everyday for 3 months so I didn't have to deal with the temper tantrums. (I washed them.)





3 comments:

  1. How often have you heard yourself say things and then go "I just sounded like my mother". Another thing we said we would never do.

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  2. I once claimed I would not buy toys made of plastic. Can you believe I made such a moronic claim? I amaze myself.

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  3. I know, right!? Whenever a parent walks out of a store/restaurant/etc hauling a kicking, screaming miscreant, I just smile at them like "I feel your pain". I let my kids eat (small amounts) of dirt and mulch at the playground. I use snacks to keep them occupied. I also have to turn around sometimes to keep my crying kids from seeing my laughing face. When they are totally melting down over something ridiculous, it's hard not to laugh!

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